January 20, 2026

The First Half Of January (Including My Elimination Diet)

Well, we are halfway into the month of January already.
 
I am two weeks into my elimination diet. I am very proud of myself to getting to this point. My functional doctor said she hoped I could give her six weeks, but she would be good with four if it got too difficult for me. Unfortunately this diet is SO strict, I have realized that I can only commit to four. It just isn't sustainable to stay this strict. If I want to keep my sanity, I am completing four. I have an appointment with her next week to have that discussion.
 
This doesn't mean I am going to just eat the entire world again at four weeks. I just have to loosen the strings a bit because of how strict it is. I can slowly bring foods back in (but I am probably going to be a gluten-free girl now). And I have learned to make things on my own and make better choices. 
 
Let me talk about what we've been up to before I discuss all the diet stuff.
 
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Briana headed back to SCAD for her winter quarter on January 4th. It was so nice having her home so long, but at the same time, we all get so used to her being back home that it makes it even more tough for her to go back - for all of us.
 
Briana wanted to bring her stuff back to the dorm and get situated (she brings a lot home because she is home for so long).  So the Friday before she went back, we brought most of her things and got her room all set up again. She wanted two more sleeps at home, so she left her car at school and we drove her back home. She got to keep a good parking space, and Doug and I drove her back to school on Sunday...
 
 Before driving back home on that Friday, we stopped at Lviv Croissants (a Ukrainian restaurant chain) for lunch (so delicious) and then stopped at Blick for school art supplies...
 
And then it was time to take Bri back to school on Sunday. We stopped for lunch out first, and then dropped her off. It was difficult to say goodbye...
 
 
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The very beginning of January was unusually warm and then we had a couple of very rainy days, but now things are quite chilly again.
 
Heavy rain...
 
Cold (but no snow)...

Doug had to go on a business trip last week, and with Briana gone, Mei was so confused as to where everyone went...
 
 
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Briana has been doing great at school...

Classes are going well and she's been having fun with her friends...
 
 
 She was put in a promo for SCAD's zumba class (she loves the coach who teaches this class)...

And I realized I never shared this project here that Briana created for her figure drawing class last quarter...

She drew herself climbing out of a comic strip and she had to draw/include internal parts of her anatomy (see her arms, hands and foot). She truly amazes me.
 
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 Briana decided to drive home for the holiday weekend so we could celebrate Doug's birthday (a few days late).
 
 For Doug's birthday present, Bri drew a D&D character for Doug and then had SCAD print the small figure out on a 3D printer. And then she painted it. And since she didn't have a box at school, she made one out of paper and made the bow out of blue tape. This is what it is like having an art student in your family!
 
We had a nice dinner out...


We watched "The Thunderbolts"...
 
And then it was time for her to leave again (insert sad face here)...

 
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And as for my diet, I have only eaten at two restaurants since this all started (it is so hard to eat out) - otherwise I have eaten at home or brought food with me when I go out. 
 
Before I started my diet on January 5th, I ate some of my favorite foods in order to say farewell for quite a long while. I ate pasta, sandwiches, eggs, butter, toast, desserts, etc...
 
 On my elimination diet, I am not allowed to have...beef, pork, eggs, shellfish, corn, soy, dairy, gluten, peanuts, processed meats, sugar, chocolate, caffeine, artificial sweeteners or alcohol. And when I got my results for my sensitivity testing - tuna, sweet potatoes, yellow squash, mushrooms, coconut, cinnamon, barley, hops, lima beans, coffee and whole wheat were also taken from me. (I don't drink coffee or beer and I don't like lima beans or sweet potato, so those are not a big deal). 
 
I have learned how much ingredients like milk, corn, soy, sugar are included/hidden in packaged foods - foods you wouldn't think included these items. I have learned to make my own salad dressings and condiments. I tried to make a homemade ketchup and it sucked. I did make a honey mustard marinade and that turned out fantastic. I made a vinegar based coleslaw that turned out pretty yummy. I don't really like fish, so I have to stick with chicken and turkey and legumes. I can eat plain rice. I can eat tree nuts. I can eat potatoes and tomatoes thank goodness (I was worried nightshade veggies would be taken from me). I can eat mustard, seed oils and vinegar. Hummus and guacamole can be used for dipping. I can eat most vegetables and most fruits. But honestly, this is getting kind of boring.

 Some of my meals...
 
I ate at Papi's twice...

And one time at Mellow Mushroom...
 
And I brought my own salad dressing every time.
 
I am on EIGHT different supplements right now including multivitamins.
 
Am I feeling any different? Not that much yet unfortunately. Maybe less bloated? My energy level still isn't very good. I have days I get discouraged, but I haven't given up. I'm proud of myself for that. I heard that cravings are supposed to start going away after a while of being on the diet. I can honestly say that isn't true. At least not for me. I would love to have an egg and a piece of toast right now. Can't do it though. And going to the grocery store when you cannot eat ninety percent of what is sitting on the shelves is eye opening.
 
Trying to be on this strict diet, still dealing with chronic illness, handling a bunch of personal "life stuff" things and knowing that our dumpster fire of a country is still being run by a bunch of evil power hungry morons and a closeted dementia patient makes life a bit difficult right now. My anxiety and depression are pretty revved up and I need to find good ways to lower my stress. 
 
 So that is the scoop for now. Wish me luck these next two weeks. Once I start bringing stuff back in, I hope I'll be able to tell what bothers me and what doesn't - what I can keep and what I need to give up.
 
 Thanks for reading. Until next time...

January 19, 2026

Martin Luther King Jr Day


We need to read these words now more than ever. We are moving backward with this administration and not forward. I will never stop speaking out about these injustices. Being silent is complicity.
 

January 15, 2026

New Year's Eve 2025

I asked Briana if she wanted to do anything with a friend or go out on New Year's Eve, but she said she wanted to just hang out with me and Doug. Hey - I'll take it as long as I can get it!
 
 I knew that I was going to start a very intense elimination diet in a few days, so I thought the best way to say goodbye to food for a while was to go to Melting Pot. I was going to be able to sample a little bit of everything...
 
 The food was so good and it was super filling as usual...
 
Then it was time to go home and watch the series finale of Stranger Things...

It was bittersweet for us because we love Stranger Things. Back in 2022, I wrote about convincing Briana to finally watch it with me...
 
Briana drew this for me several years ago...
 
We visited the Stranger Things Experience...

Doug bought me this amazing picture and it hangs in our basement...

For a girl who grew up in the 80's, it was pure nostalgia. And I love thriller, sci-fi, other-worldly kind of shows - and this one had it all. There are always going to be haters (some people didn't like the ending), but I loved the ending and I thought it was perfect. I will miss this show very much.

 Then we turned on CNN so we could watch Andy and Anderson get smashed once again. It is becoming one of our traditions... 

Then it was time for the ball to drop...

 Once that happened, I went straight to bed. I don't stay up until midnight anymore. Heh. I was so tired from being sick and all the activity of December - I was done!
 
 I did a 2025 wrap up - you can click here...
 
 
And now we are in 2026. We are only 2 weeks into the New Year and it has been a doozy already. I'll talk about the start to our new year very soon. 

January 14, 2026

Christmas 2025 - Time With Friends And Family

Finally, my last Christmas post!
 
We made a lot of memories in December. Doug, Bri and I spent time together and also spent time with friends and family.
 
I already mentioned in a previous post that D, B and I went to an "Elf" pop-up at our local Mellow Mushroom in November...
 
When Briana came home from school, she said she was craving a bloomin' onion for some reason. We hadn't been to Outback Steakhouse in years, but we went in December...

In early December, Doug, Bri and I attended my friend Amy's Christmas concert with the local community choir. Amy's children and my friend Valerie and her family also attended. The chorus sounded so great and it really got us in the Christmas spirit!
 
 
 
The concert was held at the university I attended from 1991 to 1995. What is crazy is that I graduated from KSC (now it is KSU) in December of 1995 (Magna Cum Laude). I was there back on campus almost exactly 30 years later (though it looks SO different now). It was very surreal. This was me back then...
 
While Bri was back for Christmas break, Doug and Bri went back to their D&D game on Tuesday evenings. Bri asked her college friend F to join them for a few games...
 
Doug and Bri stopped a couple of times at Waffle House on the way home from D&D for some late night hash browns!

 I hosted the annual Christmas get together with my besties Amy and Valerie. We exchanged gifts, ate yummy food, gossiped and had a lot of laughs!
 
These t-shirts that Valerie bought us were so hilarious!

 
 Look at the sweet gifts my friends gave me...
  
While I was hanging out with Val and Amy, Doug and Bri met up with friends Kira and Khalid for some gaming and dinner...
 
I met up with my friend Julie (besties since high school) for lunch one day in December to exchange gifts and to catch up. These are the awesome gifts she gave me (and the peanut butter balls were scrumptious)...

I also met up with my friend Kathy after Christmas. Unfortunately, I had to reschedule our original date due to a doctor's appointment I had and our schedules didn't align until then. I am just glad we were able to see each other before the new year. And these are the sweet gifts Kathy gave me...
 
Doug, Bri and I met up with the C family for dinner after Christmas as well. Another rescheduled get together due to some sickness this time, but we found another time that worked! (Kelly and I exchanged gifts too but I forgot pictures of them - ack!) Always good to see them...

My parents always enjoy coming over to my house to see all my decorations. So I brought in some lunch one day and we spent some time together (Briana crocheted this hat with the rabbit ears - so cute)...
 
And of course, Briana and I had to decorate our Christmas cookies...
 
 Christmas Eve is always a quiet day for us. And once again, just like last year, I started feeling sick. I start to get a feeling of anxiety each year now because whenever Christmas day creeps up, I start to get sick. I don't even know what I had this time. I don't know if it was a Hashimoto's flare up or a virus. The sickness didn't fit into any type of box. My Oura ring yelled at me that I had major stress on my body. I just know I felt crappy but I didn't feel like I had the flu or anything. So I rested on Christmas Eve, Doug and I watched "Scrooge" and I served dinner...
 
Dinner...
 
Presents under the tree...

The next morning, we got up (and I wasn't feeling well at all) and opened gifts. 
 
 Briana painted Doug another amazing mug. This time it was D&D themed...
 

She crocheted me these beautiful kitty potholders...
 
Here were some of B's goodies and Mei's gift...

Doug and I limited the number of gifts we gave each other this year, but he did get me a much needed new laptop - and I am very grateful!
 
Then we headed to my parents' house (I somehow managed to pull myself together!)...
 

Christmas with family (the cousins)...

I was feeling a bit rough, but I still managed to have an nice time.
 
When D, B and I left my mom's house, we came across this cool house with tons of light ups...
 




It was crazy!

 I was too tired to watch Stranger Things Part 2 Christmas night, so D, B and I binge watched it the next day...
 
So that was our Christmas! It was busy! I felt sick/badly for a few days, but then I slowly started feeling better. I still don't know what was up with me. I really pray this doesn't happen again next Christmas.
 
 My next post will be about New Year's Eve - and then I'll be done talking about 2025!

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