December 17, 2008

So Much Can Change In A Year


It is really amazing the difference a year makes. I honestly cannot get over how fast the kids are growing up. Kathy took the above pics at the potluck on Sunday - we managed to get all the kids on the steps for a group picture. Briana decided not to smile for it, but at least she sat there, so I'm (sort of) happy. ;)

The potluck took place at the house of our friends Ann, John and Katie. The kids had a blast running around in circles. eating cookies and opening presents. I can't thank Ann and John for opening up their home to us.

Here are the pics as promised...


Last year, Chani wasn't even home yet for the holiday potluck. Matt and Kathy went to China right after it. Doug, Briana and I met Chani for the first time on Dec. 23. Click here to see the meeting.

I went back and looked at the photos I took from last year. I can't believe how much the girls have changed in just a year. Here they are last year...


And here they are at the potluck on Sunday...



Kathy, Chani, Briana and I met for lunch today to catch up and do a little girl talk. You know, Kathy was the first person that reached out to me when I first started my adoption journey. We actually "met" on a yahoo group! Then we met in person for the first time at an Applebee's along with our good friend Randi. That was back in February 2006. We've certainly come a long way since then - haven't we, Kathy? :)

December 16, 2008

Her Princess Dress

This is the dress Briana wore to the local adopters potluck on Sunday. The minute I put it on her she said "princess dress." Yep, she sure is a princess. ;)

Here are a few shots of the "princess dress."




And I had to include this picture. This is Briana trying to pose for me. Well, trying too hard to pose for me. She won't be getting any "Miss Photogenic" awards with this one.

Pictures of the potluck to come...

December 15, 2008

Busy, Busy, Busy Christmastime

Wow, Doug, Briana and I had such a busy weekend. Really busy. I woke up early Saturday morning, and my friend Amy and I headed out to pass out free wrapping paper for "Shop With A Hero" with our local moms group. It was so fun! It really felt nice helping out people in need. We stood outside passing out paper that the moms group collected over the last few weeks. It was cold that morning but totally worth it.

As I was looking for my Santa hat to wear that morning, I came across Briana's hat. I almost forgot that she has one too! My mom bought it for her last year. Isn't she cute in it?

Then Saturday night, Doug and I went to Doug's office party. My parents came over to spoil - um, I meant to say - watch Briana. Here is a picture of us before we headed out...

Here is a picture of my mantle and Christmas tree. I always feel so cozy at this time of year. I seriously cannot believe Christmas is 10 days away. Time is flying!

Then Sunday evening, Doug, Briana and I attended the local China adopters Christmas potluck. It was so much fun! I have lots and lots of pictures to share - but I will do that in my next post.

Today, I wrapped gifts and stood in line at the post office. Yikes! I am so wiped after these last few days - I'm heading to bed now! Good night!

December 11, 2008

Her Comprehension


It is amazing how much Briana knows and understands. Kids really are like little sponges. I love to watch her mimick the things that Doug and I do in our daily lives. This morning, she was playing with the little dolls that came with her dollhouse. She set them all up for a meal. She called me over several times to come see what she was doing because she was so proud of herself.

I had a big "Ah Ha!" moment with Briana on Tuesday. Bri and I met Angela and Laney and Amy and Mary over at the library for storytime - like we do almost every Tuesday. For some reason, when storytime started, Briana felt the need to keep circling the room rather than pay attention to Miss April. Storytime always starts with singing a few songs, then we listen to a couple of stories, then sing some more songs and finally watch a short film. I told Briana more than once to stop circling the room. She heard me but didn't want to listen. By the third song, I had enough. I took her out of the room and brought her to the ladies room right across the hall. I stood her against the wall and stepped back to the middle of the bathroom. I pointed my finger and firmly told her that we would be going home if she didn't behave. And I totally meant it. She bowed her head and started to scooch forward toward me. I told her no and to stay where she was. But, she kept shuffling until she reached my legs. She hugged them and said "Sorry mama." It was like a light went off. She really got was I was telling her. I think I heard angels singing. :) I picked her up, hugged her and we went back into storytime.

As we entered, Miss April had already started reading a story. Briana went and sat on Angela's lap quietly. When the songs started again, she stood up and participated. She did the freeze dance with a smile on her face! We watched the film, did our craft and then we all went to lunch. Briana did a complete 180 that morning. It was amazing.

She is growing up. She is still two, and there are still times that she does not listen. But I'll savor those times that she does. ;)

And because Briana really liked the short film at storytime on Tuesday, here it is..."Chicken Soup with Rice". (If you grew up in the 70's, you may remember it.)

December 8, 2008

Party Girl - Again

My girl can party. Really she can. Briana's adorable friend Mary turned 2 on Thanksgiving Day, and last week, Mary had a great birthday party!

Briana and Laney loved the glasses, necklaces and bracelets they received at Mary's party (if you can tell).

Here is the birthday girl - Miss Mary!

Fun, fun, fun!

The girls were hopped up on mac n cheese and cupcakes. LOL!

So cute!

Here are a few more pics of the fun par-tay!

December 5, 2008

Visit With Santa Claus

Well as you can see, this is how we had to get the shot. Briana was not digging Santa. There were no tears, no screams. Just arms outstretched begging for mommy to pick her up. Santa even tried to give her a candy cane as a bribe. She literally handed it back to him (she was basically saying thanks, but no thanks). Nice, huh? My dad and Doug came to lend some moral support (my poor mom has bronchitis and couldn't come), but Briana still wasn't having any of it.

This was the best professional shot of the bunch...I look like a complete dork, but Bri and Santa look nice. I was trying to get Briana to cooperate and you can see it on my face. Ugh.

I can cheat a little and crop myself out!

Here Briana is waiting for the big guy.

She seemed confident. Sort of.

She seemed happy to be there at first.

Begging for mommy.

More begging...

Mommy helping out now.

Somehow Bri still ended up getting the bribe I offered her even though she didn't really pose with Santa - a soft pretzel. She's really proud of herself, isn't she?


December 4, 2008

Say A Little Prayer

This was Ginger. She belonged to my childhood friend Jennifer and her husband Greg. She was struck and killed by a hit and run driver last night.

Greg was walking Ginger around 10PM when a car struck her. The force pulled Greg's hand which was wrapped by Ginger's leash and now he has to see a hand surgeon. The car that hit her slowed, then sped up and drove away. Ginger was 9 years old and was extremely sweet and loving. I wanted you all to meet her.

May I just ask what the heck is wrong with people?

I wish I could be there to give Jennifer a great big hug right now. Please say a little prayer for all of them.

(I'll give you my Santa update tomorrow.)

December 3, 2008

Well Checkup - My Healthy Girl

Briana had her 2 year checkup today - even though she will be 28 months on Friday. We are a little off on the schedule due to how many times Bri saw the doctor when she first came home from China. The last time we were there (in May), he said Briana was really healthy and to just come back in six months - which we did. Since Bri came in today so close to her 30 month checkup, he said don't worry about coming in for that one and just come back when she is 3. Yay!

Miss Bri is a very healthy girl. I did talk to the doctor about my questions regarding Briana's speech and he didn't seem concerned at all. He felt she was right on target. He said that when she gets closer to age three and if I am having problems understanding her at that point, then I might want to get it checked out.

Briana is 36 3/4 inches tall and 26 lbs, 2 oz at 28 months. According to the Chinese growth chart, she is 75% across the board. On the US growth chart, she is about 85% for height and 25% for weight. I have had several people tell me they thought Briana was tall for her age, and I guess they were right! Her legs are definitely longer and she has pants that now look like capris to prove it! No wonder I am having problems finding pants that fit her properly.

The doctor's office was out of flu mist, so we went with the flu shot today. Briana cried for only a minute, but once she saw her Bugs Bunny band-aid and when Doug and I told her we would take her out to lunch for being so brave, she stopped. What a trooper! ;)

I'm so glad the appointment is done. Now on to the next thing - Santa Claus. Tomorrow. At the mall. I am going to give it a shot. If Briana isn't feeling it, then I am not going to worry about it. I gotta try though. Wish me luck!

O Christmas Trees, O Christmas Trees

We have two Christmas trees now - a real tree downstairs and a new pre-lit artificial one upstairs. I didn't even have to buy ornaments for the upstairs one - I have THAT many. Sad, I know. Real trees are so hard to decorate sometimes because there are so many bendy and limp branches. I had a really tough time decorating the tree this year. So, I decorated the one downstairs on my own and had Briana help decorate the upstairs one with me with nice unbreakable ornaments.

I knew last weekend was going to be rain-filled (In Georgia? Unbelieveable I know.). So Friday afternoon, Doug, Briana and I went to buy our real tree. As soon as we hit the lot, it started to lightly rain. Dang. I somehow managed to find a tree in less than ten minutes. If you know me, that is usually an impossible feat. I think a mixture of rain and pure luck helped me find the tree so quickly this year.

Here is Miss Briana scoping the grounds.

Here are Doug and Briana. See, it's raining!

Bri and I finding shelter.

I love Christmas trees!

The finished product.

And this lovely ornamanet adorns our tree - Briana's visit with Santa last year. I don't think I am going to get a good picture this year. Briana isn't digging Santa in person. I am going to attempt to take her to see Santa tomorrow. Wish me luck.

Bri and I decorated the upstairs tree (in my sitting room) together yesterday. Honestly, I couldn't believe how well Briana did. I really thought two year olds and christmas ornaments wouldn't mix. She put the ornaments on different branches and asked me to lift her for the higher branches. She really did a great job for a two year old. I was very impressed.

See how hard she is working?

Our finished product.

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!

December 1, 2008

Out Of The Mouth Of Babes

Well, my babe anyway.

We had a wonderful Thanksgiving and I hope you all did too. Briana was her perky self per usual and we had a great day. We had dinner (around 1:30PM) at my parent's house so we were only able to watch little snippets of the Thanksgiving Day Parade on Thanksgiving. I decided to TiVo the parade to watch with Bri at a later time. I turned it on Saturday morning. Briana and I sat down and watched the whole parade portion (the last two hours of it). It was hilarious because she had commentary for almost every single part of it. She pointed and said, "WOW!" a whole lot. (She is a "WOW" girl anyway - says it all the time. Everything to her is a BIG deal.) As the balloons went by, she would shout out the names of the characters. She yelled "Shrek!" when Shrek came by and asked "Where's Donkey?" and "Where's Princess?". When Buzz Lightyear came by, she yelled "Buzz!" and asked "Where's Woody?" (I think we are starting to enter the question phase of her life.) She would say "March, march" and stomp her feet when the bands went by. Of course, she loved all the dancing and singing. Sometimes I can't believe how good the interaction is getting between me and my girl.

For the past couple of months, I have been a little worried about Briana's speech. She talks A WHOLE LOT and she says hundreds and hundreds of words clearly. She can put two words together and says lots of phrases. She is so smart and knows exactly what I am saying. I will ask her questions and she can respond. But there are times that I do not understand what she is saying. It mainly happens when she wants to speak in sentences. When she starts to speak in sentences, I sometimes think that she may be making words up to speak quickly or is just not pronunciating the words correctly. I have noticed that several of her friends that are her age or a little younger are speaking a little more clearly.

Good news though - in the last two weeks, I have noticed an improvement. I am understanding a lot more and she seems to be pronunciating better. I guess everything comes in time. The other day she pointed to pictures of herself on the wall and said, "Daddy look Briana pictures." That sounds like a sentence to me! Doug bought her a Christmas ornament with Buzz Lightyear on it. She started calling for him this morning, "Buzz, where are you?"

She is still stubborn though. If she cannot say a word, she won't even try to say it. She just looks at me or tries to divert my attention. Anything with a GR sound at the beginning - grandma, green, gravy - she just can't say it. Instead of trying to say "elephant", she gives me the elephant sound instead. And then there is her name. She calls herself "Nana" (Non-na) instead of Briana. I often correct her to say "Briana" and then she'll repeat, "Bee-nana". Close enough.

I try not to compare Briana to kids that have heard the English language from the day they were born, but it is hard sometimes. Briana never heard a lick of English until she was 12 months old, so I think she is probably on target under the circumstances. I am going to talk to her pediatrician this week and make sure she is on track.

Briana is really understanding the possessive thing now. She constantly says, "Mama's this" or "Daddy's that". She says "Nana's this" or "My that". We were in the car yesterday and she pointed to each chair stating who sat in what chair. Pure genius. ;)

And big news - my baby can count to five! She takes my hand and counts my fingers, "one, two, three, four, five". Yeah! I would say she can count to 10, but she usually skips six and seven and goes straight to eight and nine. So, I will say she can count to five. :)

At the bookstore yesterday, she picked up at Little Einsteins book that was about pirates. She looked at me and said "Aye Matey." Snort! Hmmm, I guess Captain Feathersword does say that.

I can say that my daughter wins the award for being "Little Miss Manners" though. She says "thank you" to me for everything. I hand her something, she says "tank you mama". I help her blow her nose, she says "tank you mama". When she drops something, she says, "sorry mama." When she coughs or burps, she covers her mouth and says "scuze me mama." I am constantly thanking her for doing things, so I think she is picking that up. It is really cute.

Somehow, Briana has a scrape on her chin. Not sure what she did. I put a band-aid on it yesterday and she never messed with it. I put a new one on after her bath and put her to bed. She started to cry about a half an hour later and Doug checked on her. She pulled her band-aid off and was so upset. I went into her room and Doug went to grab another one for me. She was crying so hard. He handed me the band-aid, I placed it on her chin and sat in the rocker in her room and cradled her. Doug left us alone. I wiped the tears from her face and told her everything was ok now. We rocked a few minutes quietly. She then squeezed me and quietly said, "Tank you mama."

I kissed her forehead and thought to myself, "No, thank you."
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